Do you realise life after marriage.. is so different from when you are just dating?
Life after having kids.. is even more different, and distracting. You don't even have time for each other anymore. Even if you have, all you talk about is the kids.
How then, do we sustain the love in each other as we grow old together? It's a question which I've been asking myself time and again.
Living together requires tremendous amount of patience and giving in to your partner.. even though he/she may drive you up the wall at times. At the end of the day, he/she is still your companion till death. That's if you chose to walk the journey of life with him/her.
Question is, how do you grow the feeling which you called "love", and make sure that the flame doesn't stop burning?
I think little actions like these help:
~ Asking how his day had been
~ Calling him to check if he's had his meal
~ Be considerate to his feelings always (try your best)
~ Big hug every day
~ Tell him you love him
What happens then, if the actions are not reciprocated? Do u stop loving him?
To be continued...
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